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How much dating game do you have?

August 26, 2010 Leave a comment

OnlineDatingBlog.info have innovative solutions to help

Isn’t it strange how everyone focuses on the end goal and seldom pay any attention to the path. We are not trying to be deliberately philosophical but from friends, family to our online life through social networks and websites, they all seem focused on getting us a partner or date(s). Dating websites seem to rarely focus on someone’s ability with a potential date or partner but just getting a mere result. Whilst they may match people on compatibility and hobbies to make the transition from stranger to potential partner supposedly easier, they neglect the person’s ability to give a good impression, ability to converse, build attraction etc.

Dating is not as easy as we think
It’s assumed that we all have the ability to chat and build attraction with people who have similar tastes. Surely, we just need to talk about common interests? Well, that doesn’t really make us stand out and the impression that gives is obviously going to be regarded as attractive. Where is the intrigue, spontaneity, humour, the allure, the curiosity that makes your date want you and desire you beyond a platonic way? Whilst we may be able to show such attributes when we are in our comfortable circles amongst our friends, many people especially when in the company of someone they perceive as more attractive or socially higher than them feel anxiety and as a result are not able to give off the impression that they are capable of. Many men make fools out of themselves in the company of attractive women which otherwise would be out of character. Perhaps, they make a remark, comment or joke that simply does not befit the situation or worse still causes some offence. It’s obvious that many people have this problem. Being the centre of attention amongst their safety net yet being a fish out of water when in unfounded territory.

Dating advice and training
In our jobs we get offered all sorts of training to develop ourselves such as presentation, negotiation, stakeholder management skills as they help us improve our competence or skill within our jobs. By understanding what we need to do or could do differently we are able to change our behaviour to make us more productive and effective in our jobs. Sounds very simple and obvious and there is obviously real benefit in it otherwise companies would not be spending $billions on staff training. Yet, when it comes to dating, we just do not see it in the same way despite many of us having clear problems and failing in our ability to makes a good impression, being able to approach, knowing how to converse or build attraction. We do need help but we seem reluctant to take advice in this area out of perceived social stigma or a sense of pride. Without such we remain doing the same things we do and fail to make improvements and as a result become dejected at the way things are going.

Improving your game and making the best impression
We recommend that you take a look at the Online Dating Blog as they focus on helping people achieve the results they are capable of in the dating arena. Effectively, they offer a number of courses focusing on dating advice and training to help you achieve a better experience and get more from your efforts. Whether you feel anxious during the approach, get tongue tied when talking, are unsure of what to say, or just simply lack the confidence to meet with the people you find attractive then there is a lot of help on the Online Dating Blog through a number of FREE eCourses. There are also a number of full courses which go into much more depth and guarantee you to get results. The beauty of these courses are that if you do not see any results after following the advice and reading the course, they will refund anything you pay. So in essence, if you are not able to attract anyone you like and come away with atleast their number, you will get your money back. Many products make such claims but not many of those have featured in the likes of major global publications such as FHM, MAXIM, Playboy and have featured on global media channels such as the BBC, ABC, FOX and been tested on shows like Dr Phil and the Tyra Banks Show. These courses are of the highest quality as to get such extensive positive media coverage must been the courses are worthwhile. They were proven on live television. Don’t take our word for it, check out the youtube clips on the website taken directly.

You have nothing to lose, so why not check out the FREE courses and see how you can up your dating game and easily attract people. Essentially, we all have the requisite skills but few of us use these. It really is very simple once you know how and have build up the confidence. Check out the site and videos and you’ll soon be on your way to being the one that always gets the girl and is never sidelined.

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How do you know when someone is attracted to you?

May 18, 2010 1 comment

Understanding whether someone is into you, is something that many of us have difficulty with. Even when it is blatantly obvious to the world, some of us still seem oblivious to it. Just like reading maps, some people have a better sense of direction than others and are able pick up on the cues. Knowing the signs of physical attraction, means that you forgo the awkwardness when dating and more importantly getting the one you want rather than leaving embarrassed.

While we may be aware when we are flirting, it can sometimes, especially for men, be difficult to ascertain whether the other person is just being nice or is reciprocating our feelings. Seldom, do we or those that we are interested in forgo the dating rituals and make our intentions known from the offset.

So, why do so many of us get it so wrong, and how can we learn to read the signs of attraction?

Eye contact
If you don’t look at someone when you are introduced, it looks as if you are shy, aloof, or have something to hide. But if you stare, that seems threatening and hostile. Most encounters are a mixture of looking at the person and then looking away.

‘If someone likes you, you will notice an increase in eye contact,’ says body language expert Judi James.  ‘They will hold your gaze for a second or two longer than usual.   Then they will keep glancing back to check your expression to see how you are reacting to them.’

‘If you want someone to know you like them, don’t be shy – make eye contact,’ advises Judi. If you don’t, they’ll think you are stuck-up or not interested.

Body language
If you think body language is just about your posture then you have probably missed some important signals. It is all about the look on your face, the way you speak, and the signals you send by how you stand and move.

When standing, the usual distance between people is between 45cm and 1.2m. Closer is a signal of interest. But if the person moves away, it may mean they are not as interested in you as you are in them. Another sign that someone likes you is if they face you with an open body.  That is, they don’t have their arms folded and they don’t fiddle with something while they’re talking to you.

Here are some other signs to look out for:

Females:

  • Swing or roll their hips, especially when walking past a man or dancing
  • Play with their hair, toss it over their shoulder
  • Fiddle with a necklace, bracelet or earrings
  • Expose a shoulder by letting a sleeve hang down

Males:

  • Fiddle with a tie, play with buttons, collars or sleeves
  • Smooth their hair
  • Stick their fingers inside a belt
  • Rub or pull on an earlobe

Whether you’re too shy to initiate contact or simply not good at picking up on whether a signal was actually a signal or a random gesture, citydaters.co.uk can put you in contact with people around the world that share similar interests. Why guess, let us make it obvious!

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On average we spends £800 a year on dates

April 27, 2010 Leave a comment

According to 2009 surveys by YouGov and Maestro, there are 8.6 million UK adults actively dating, roughly half the total number of singletons.  What happens to the other half of singletons that aren’t looking?  Perhaps, they are put off by the costs involved in taking someone out on a date.

The Costs

The cost of the average date is £206.87, the financial brunt of which is mostly borne by men, although women spend almost as much (£191.38) on clothes, hair and beauty products in preparation. At the national average of four dates each per year, this equates to a total dating market value of more than £8 billion.  Is it really worth spending £800 a year to meet someone  or is that money better spent having fun with the hope that you might meet someone with similar tastes at such venues or on such holidays?

Geographic Differences

  • The highest spenders on average are the Welsh
  • The highest ratio of single women to men is found in Glasgow
  • The lowest ratio of single women to men is in Reading

Why use online dating?

  • 4.7 million people claim to have used a dating website in the past year
  • 1 in 5 marriages of 19-25 year olds started online
  • Some 43% of people use Google to check out a first date

Perhaps, it is time to forget the stigma and give online dating a chance.

http://www.citydaters.co.uk

CityDaters puts you in touch with people you want to know.  Why not try us for free and see if there is someone from our 7 million active single user base that tickles your fancy.


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